us… in a flirty phase? Korea's unique pre-dating phase: the 'flirting phase' culture!

Hello!

Have you ever heard the word '썸' (ssum) in Korean dramas or songs?

'썸' (ssum) is a unique Korean culture that refers to the ambiguous relationship before starting a relationship, where there is mutual attraction but not yet a romantic relationship.

It's like having 'Something' but not quite!

• You exchange KakaoTalk messages and it feels a little special...

• You meet up often but you're not dating...

• More than friends, less than lovers!

This kind of precarious relationship is expressed as '썸 탄다' (ssum tanda).

Does your country have a pre-dating culture similar to the Korean '썸' (ssum)? Or what do you think about the '썸' (ssum) culture?

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